hamei wrote:
skywriter wrote:
funny how often a sample of one can confirm suspicions.
My sample is larger than one. I'm kind of a slow learner
Mine's real Japanese, "Yamato Nadeshiko" full force, I guess it's because we're older and she's from a smaller and traditional town... It's quite amazing, but sometimes puzzling and sometimes difficult to deal with (especially the self-deprecation). It's way more subtle than being submissive (she isn't, you're right, that would be absolutely boring), it's more a sense of duty and self-sacrifice... The self-sacrifice thing gets weird sometimes, because most of the time it is unnecessary, but that's the only answer she's got... It's a daily learning experience, but I wouldn't trade it for anything else
As far as western chicks go, don't worry, the sense of entitlement lasts quite a bit longer than in their 30's, then it turns into alimony
Frankly, I think they take their sense of entitlement with them to their grave...